Your mom is always your mom.
Your family is always yours..
They are alway yours.. It is a fact..
你的爸爸始终是你的爸爸;
你的妈妈始终是你的妈妈;
你的家人就是你的家人..
全部都是事实.. 不能改变的事实...
When something really happen to u, please don't try to refute them.. Trying to respect them, although they did wrong at first.. No matters problem, just listen to them first, then u only start to suggest your opinions to them.. Try to apologize to them no matter they did wrong at first or what.. A sincere apology is one of the best tools of solving the family problems.. Dont feel shy to apology to them.. Just speak it out! They will forgive u..
No matter what happen, your parents will always forgive u although u did a big mistake.. They wont leave u alone, they will help u to face it and resolve it..
Sometimes they might scold u suddenly, but try to stand on their part and think of it.. they are just let off their stress.. although it is bad.. but u still have to face it.. because they are your family.. Always your family..
Stay calm and think of another ways to solve, no violences and no quarrels.. 退一步, 海阔天空..